David
Lintz (P'74), has been impressed with how Prozdor balances academic
and social life, watching his eighth-grade son Michael go through the program.
The issue of social-academic balance also resonates for the Curtis family,
another two-generation Prozdor family, with Dr. Richard Curtis (P'65,
HC'69), and his two daughters, Arielle (P'03), and Nicole (P'05),
sharing the experience, though in different eras.
Curtis, a West Roxbury native and physician, went to Prozdor in the early
1960s for five days a week, along with friends from Revere, Lynn, Boston and
Brookline. Today, he notices, his daughters' friends are from Wellesley,
Newton and Needham.
Differences other than the geographic ones abound. Unlike his daughters,
Curtis had to take an entrance exam for Prozdor, and his classes met for 12
hours each week, double his daughters' schedule.
But the father and daughters have much in common in their attitude toward
Prozdor. Curtis says that he is amazed at how positive his children are about
their Prozdor experience, something that he attributes to both the social
environment at the school and the family tradition of a strong Jewish
identity.
"I think very definitely everybody needs their North Star. For me, Judaism
and Jewish education are my North Star," says Curtis.
"I hear my kids complain about a lot of things, but I don't hear them
complaining about going to Prozdor. I really don't," he says. "They seem to
enjoy it. The atmosphere is very positive today."
The way that Curtis articulates his Jewish identity so strongly has come
through loud and clear to Arielle and Nicole.
"It's definitely changed me," says Arielle, an 11th-grader who will graduate
from Prozdor this spring. "I think I'm more active now. Prozdor has pushed me
to identify with Judaism in a positive way, to really emphasize what it means
to be a Jew."
Arielle adds that the experience has special meaning because of the family
connection. "I think it ties me to my dad because he had similar experiences
to what I've had. It's just very special to be able to call yourself a
graduate of Prozdor," she says.
Nicole, who is in the ninth grade, agrees. "It's shown me who I am and where
I've come from, and helped me to define what kind of Jew I am."
The
pure pleasure and rich Jewish experience of going to Prozdor stretches back
even further in time with Mollie Stein Glanz (P'44, HC'46), whose son
Richard attended for two years and whose grandchildren Amanda (P'05),
and Daniel (P'06), are now enrolled.
"I can remember the warm feeling that we had," says Glanz. "We loved going."
Details like sharing coleslaw sandwiches—for a nickel apiece—with her friends
and studying harder for her Prozdor tests than her public school exams stand
out for Glanz, who was a career-long volunteer and Hebrew teacher with Jewish
organizations including Hadassah and the Hebrew Rehabilitation Center for
Aged.
"My identity as a Jew was strengthened and reinforced by Prozdor. It really
set the whole course of my life," reflects Glanz.
Glanz's son Richard, who went to Prozdor for two years during the late 1960s,
adds that his short time at the school had a similar effect on his life.
"Certainly the values associated with being a Jew were very close to me and
very important that they be passed on to my kids," he says.
And while times have changed and the immersion-style learning of Prozdor now
takes place in fewer hours per week, Glanz is thrilled that her grandchildren
are going through the same program as she did.
"The fact that they are going makes me very happy," she says. "In a way it
gives me some sense of encouragement for the future of our Jewish youth."
Holly Lebowitz Rossi is a freelance writer who lives in Arlington, Mass.